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Why Seeing Movies is a Budget Date Dream

July 14, 2015

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The perfect date night situation.

I love taking my wife to see movies from time to time (this is Andrew, by the way). If you follow Shantelle’s instagram it’s a huge surprise, right? But it’s one of the most amazing things you can do, period. To start with there’s the anticipation of going to see a new movie, something you’ve never seen before but you’ve been checking out the previews for weeks (or months). And while the feature presentation is exciting enough by itself that’s only part of the fun. It used to cost an arm and a leg to see a first-run movie, but things are a-changing, people.

Personally, I’m a HUGE fan of the trailers before the film we paid to see even starts. When I go to the movies with my wife we are both transformed into movie critics for 15-20 glorious minutes. Every preview is an opportunity to decide if an upcoming film will receive the coveted “see it in theatres” ranking. There are a few other ratings we use as well, as any good critic should, so allow me to break those down for you:

1. “UGH, why?” – this rating is usually reserved for movies that probably should never have been made and/or many of the fundamental elements in the movie/their very existence is fundamentally troubling (see “Aloha”).

2. “No, no, definitely not” – this category is home to the vast majority of movies. It’s basically a catch all for movies where it’s painfully obvious from the preview that we won’t enjoy it (see “Run all Night”).

3. “Just plain dumb/Why?/Please I thought the end of times wasn’t nigh” – A category basically filled with Entourage-esque movies (see “Entourage”).

4. “Redbox!” – These movies are intriguing, but not worth the price of admission due to a high likelihood of the movie sucking. At times our suspicions are confirmed – the movie sucked, but in some pleasant cases cases we’re happily surprised to find they’re actually really good (see “The Duff”).

5. “Fine, we’ll pay” – Pretty obvious, we might not have otherwise paid to see it but the previews were catchy enough that we’ll be forking over too much money to see this (and it at times this pays off, see “Furious 7”).

6. Lastly, and the highest rating, “Add that to the planner RIGHT. NOW!” – You can tell from these previews that you simply must go see the movie in theaters or your life will be incomplete*! This final category of movies is also a source of consternation when the release date keeps getting pushed back until later and later in the year (see “Pan” and also my wife’s tears).

Critiquing movies is not only one of my favorite parts of going out to the theater, it’s imperative. Nowadays going to see a movie at the theater isn’t cheap so it’s important not to waste your movie dollars on a bad film. Adult ticket prices are usually $10 and up and even a matinee will cost you $8 a ticket. I won’t even talk about how expensive concessions have gotten because it’s almost painful to part with the price of a bag of popcorn. All of this is to preface a rather large budget date night secret with you/an amazing tip for when you want to see a movie.

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Shantelle is very excited about budget dating (and Cinderella).

Every Tuesday night our local Regal cinemas has a discount day where tickets are only $6 all day long on first-run movies (we aren’t talking dollar theatres here). If you’re also a Regal Crown Club member (which we are because it’s FREE), the tickets are only $5 a pop. Anytime we’re not sure about a new movie, we will wait and go see it on a Tuesday night. The tickets are cheap enough that even if we don’t like the movie (I’m looking at you “Far from the Madding Crowd”) we didn’t spend too much going to see it. The other benefit is that the whole reason they have the discount: very few people see movies on Tuesday nights. Even with super cheap tickets the theater is never crowded.

We have since discovered that more than just Regal offers this discount. AMC theatres has a discount day and I am sure that there are other deals out there as well, all you have to do is look. It seems like the discounts vary between theatres so I’d double check with your local big screen house to find out when they are!

In addition to the regularly discounted movie nights, the movie clubs through places like AMC and Regal have great deals. We earn free popcorn, drinks, and tickets on the regular which finally makes a movie date a budget dream.

Now, go forth and date at the movies on a budget (finally)! And since we’re talking about it, what was the best movie you’ve seen in theatres lately? Personally, I really loved InsideOut!

May your popcorn bucket always be full,

Andrew

*May or may not be completely true.

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2 or More Players Required: Game Night Ideas

April 14, 2015

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Andrew is a massive nerd. I say that with the utmost respect and love because I too, am a massive nerd. And what do nerds enjoy more than anything else? Games. I mean not in my case but they’re still pretty awesome and one of our favorite things to do when we have friends over is to have a game night. Why? Because games are fun, duh. Obviously you think that too or you wouldn’t be here right now, right? So let’s talk about some super fun, super(ish) uninvolved, non-relationship breaking game night ideas!

→ Any of these game night ideas should be accompanied by food. Healthy or unhealthy alike are welcome, but if you invite me to a game night and don’t have food (or allow me to bring a dessert) I will place a curse upon your house. It doesn’t have to be very in-depth either! The dude very much loves a brie dip that I make that’s as easy as melting brie with butter and then dipping some cut up baguette or challah bread in it. Delish and easy.

Card Games

• Gloom – Possibly my favorite game ever because I’m secretly Wednesday Addams, this game is just what the name says: gloomy. But also flippin’ hilarious (and pretty). Basically you have a family upon which you want to bestow a crazy amount of despair and accompany said despair with a story of why/how/who before ultimately killing the family. To the other players you want to have happy things happen to them and kill them while they’re smiling. I’m not sure if the story is required but it certainly is whenever we play. The darker, the better. 2-4 players.

• Guillotine – A little less dark than Gloom but still pretty far down the rabbit hole. Basically you cut off the heads of French nobles (which is why I always try to get Marie & Louis so I can protect them). Very quick gameplay! 2-5 players but we’ve done more!

• Monopoly Deal Card Game – Normally you wouldn’t see me near Monopoly willingly. It’s something that almost ended the budding relationship between Andrew & I early because…he’s the worst. And Monopoly is the worst. Curse the game! However, after a game night with one of my favorite people and her husband we were hooked on Monopoly Deal. It’s simple, there are no spaces that Andrew will count out, and I win all the time. Like, every game. I realize that’s no incentive for you to try it but you should because it’s amazing. Basically you play until someone has 3 completed property sets but we usually double that amount since when you’re only playing with 2 people that can happen pretty quickly. 2-5 players but you might be able to squeeze in more. Especially if you have two decks.

• Cards Against Humanity – It’s terrible. It has horrid, foul language. It’s kind of rude. So basically gather a good group of friends who aren’t going to be easily offended (honestly, I sometimes have to stop myself from giving the cards a good talking to) and go to work. I’m pretty sure if you have enough cards you can have all of the humans play, so there aren’t set player maximums.

Board (not bored) Games

• Life (especially Haunted Mansion!!) – I don’t know what it is but it’s hilariously fun to play Life as an adult. Particularly the Haunted Mansion one since they correctly charge you $100,000 to go to Boo-niversity. Get a cheap (or not) copy of the game, play with your significant other and make them jealous of your new partner and all your children. And $70,000/year career. Just don’t be forced to change your career. 2-4 players.

• Settlers of Catan – To be honest I never really remember this game after we’re done playing it but it is FUN. You build towns around resources, trade with others (or rip them off…), and ultimately take over the WORLD. Or just Catan. This is not a super short game but still fun. Intended for 3-4 players but the dude and I have played just the two of us, they also have an app which makes it possible to play by yourself!

• Ticket To Ride – All Andrew’s pick. Secret missions, connect cities without letting on to your opponents, get points for the biggest…connection 😉 Super simple so it’s really easy to learn but the strategies on how to win are endless and as simple or complicated as you want it to be. “Also the plastic train cars are pretty and bright and fun”, said my husband, the 30 year old dude. I’m so proud. 2-5 players.

• Clue (bonus points for the Tower of Terror version) – It’s a classic and you’ve probably played before and you even have your favorite character. But if we’re playing together don’t touch Miss Scarlett unless you want me to give you a candlestick in a not-so-nice way :) 3-6 players.

Yay! I may be incredibly competitive but you don’t need to be to enjoy these games (however it’s better if you are). Now go forth and be social in a super introverted way, just as I or God intended. Do you have any favorite game night ideas that I could use?

Wishing you never to have to play Monopoly with Andrew,

Shantelle

PS – As Andrew was reading this post he asked “Do you want to change the 3 complete property sets to 3 monopolies?” CASE IN POINT. Don’t ever play Monopoly with this dude.

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It’s Been 84 Years…

March 17, 2015

I’m alive! Or at least, what my dude likes to refer to as “whatever your existential definition of being alive is”. I thought I’d do a mini recap post of what I’ve been up to in our time apart. And believe me, dear readers, I’ve missed looking at y’alls nonexistent faces 😉 It has been a crazy few weeks and so much has happened so let’s get to it!

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Biggest news: We’re going to Disneyland in October!! I am deep in the throes of planning our trip down to the minutest detail. We’re also planning on doing an anniversary shoot while we’re there so if anyone has a recommendation for Disneyland photogs let me know! I’ve got a few feelers out so I’m excited to see who we end up shooting with.

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2nd biggest news: I’m finally a ginger! I’ve wanted to be a redhead since basically forever (mainly fueled by the beauty that is Dana Scully) and I’m super duper happy to be one now. I may even go a little brighter at my next visit to the salon :) My dude even took that photo on the left – he’s slowly working on getting better with a camera. You don’t want to see the other 50 shots he tried!

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• Master Manolo Gracey Panda XVI is getting huge! We’ve been taking him on walks more often which he loves and hates, poor dear.

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• I finally upgraded my laptop to the Pro with Retina and wowie. What a gorgeously detailed screen it is! It has twice the ram my old pro had and fifty times the pretty. As much as that level of detail isn’t always noticeable, I do find myself marveling a little over how crisp photos can look on it. I also adore how light it is in comparison! Andrew made the decision to keep my old pro and switch out the ram so he’s finally a full-on Apple user! Now I’ve got to live with the tech dork that keeps saying he has to go get his “Macbook Pro” though rather than laptop. Gear snob 😉 But hey, at least now we both have the cutest decals for our laptops ever.

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• We saw Cinderella. Like a lot. Look for a review on that Saturday!

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The dude and my phone. Because who doesn’t need to see a super tall guy with a Minnie Mouse case once in a while?

• The last month or so has been so stressful that I fell off the wagon a bit with my exercising and diet, but who doesn’t from time to time? I’ve made a commitment to really focus on this and start integrating exercise more into my daily routine. We’ve started walking Mani on the daily and I found the Blogilates beginner calendar which I’m going to start on Thursday! It looks very challenging but hey, I wanna feel better and I need to look extra cute for our shoot in October 😉

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• Our walks have been super fun, and really freaking pretty. So nice I had to mention them twice.

• I found some new amazing pens to use with my Erin Condren Life Planner. I was also so happy to receive a survey to complete on the 2015-2016 planners – I’m crossing my fingers for a smaller version! Not too much longer now!

That wraps up the first post back for me. Real talk: if you’ve stuck around to keep reading now that I’m back I really appreciate it. I was feeling burned out, creatively non-existent, and all around depressed and the time away really has helped me feel so much more refreshed. I was able to do some thinkin’ and I’ve really started to look in a new direction for the blog and my business. Blogging and photographing will continue but it will be changing…slowly. And as always, I invite y’all to contribute with what you like, what you don’t, and what you would!

I hope y’all have had a great few weeks! Did anyone else have awesomeness happen?

Wishing you gingers and Disneyland,

Shantelle

PS – I love Titanic.

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Lessons from the First Year (& My Dude)

February 10, 2015

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Andrew (aka the dude) and I have now been married for a year and 4 days as of the publish date for this post and while I’d like to pretend I am an island on my own, I at least need one other person 😉 In the time we’ve been together there have been countless small moments that have lead to many of our little family’s new traditions. The dude has become my drift-compatible copilot through all of our constants and variables. Though we’ve been together for almost 3 years I’ve learned more in this first year of marriage from him than I have in quite a while. Some of it has been bad (hello, late night Taco Bell while playing WoW), some of it has been terribly difficult, but most of it has been pretty awesome.

• It’s ok to laugh when you’re mad. Honestly half of our arguments end in us cracking up because we’re so annoyed that we can’t stand it…which leads to laughing uncontrollably. Which makes little sense but geez does it get the annoyance over with quickly!

• Forgiveness is a terribly difficult but at times necessary thing. It’s also really -expletive- hard. At the same time, people really can change and it’s often for the better.

• It’s not a bad thing to ask for help. More than likely we’ve all been told this at one point or another but asking for help – or sometimes just admitting you need help – is very hard.

• Bowling is freaking stupid and I suck at it but sometimes stupid and annoying things are fun when you’re with the right person (and stop being such a stubborn/perfection seeking Taurus about them). It’s the same for when things change unexpectedly: if you have the right person with you you can deal with basically anything and still have a laugh about it (even if the laugh is a few weeks after).

• Your significant other is a mirror but it’s one that gives pretty constructive advice, unlike the Evil Queen’s mirror. On a side note come on mirror, who just says someone else is prettier? At least recommend a skin cream or something.

• A significant other should be one who gives (or tries to give) great pep talks, builds you up, and helps you stay there – not someone who tears you down. I’ve had my fair share of bad relationships, so it wasn’t until I was with Andrew that I really knew that the SO in your life was supposed to be a help and support. I am eternally grateful for having learned that.

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Our anniversary this year was a pretty perfect representation of where we are right now. While we would have preferred to have traveled or gone back to Second Empire, we decided to stay local and cheap. We defrosted the top layer of our wedding cake and ate it (holy goodness it was delicious!), went grocery shopping, and then went to Frankie’s to have fun playing arcade games and putt-putt (although I got two holes in one, I suck and gave up halfway through). My gift to Andrew was pretty awesome and included a mini book of our adventures so far. Later we discussed our five year plan to reaffirm why we stayed local and cheap and where we’re heading. We are saving for our future dreams now and we will achieve them, together. It’s a pretty life altering thing when you open yourself up to being with someone else for however long we’ve got on this earth, which honestly I could only do recently. It opens you up to all kinds of scary things but it also gives you immense possibilities. I wouldn’t be heading the direction I am without the support that Andrew has given me within the last few months. So Andrew, here’s to many more years of lessons and new adventures together (with many more argument-ending laughfests).

Wishing you constants and variables and a drift-compatible copilot,

Shantelle

PS – If you’d like to peruse some of our wedding photos, you can see them in my One Month Down post!

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In Defense of Fairy Tales

November 22, 2014

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Cinderella never asked for a prince. She asked for a dress and a night off. –Kiera Cass

Last night I had one of the best nights ever. That dude I’m married to surprised me with two tickets to see Roger & Hammerstein’s Cinderella at the DPAC inside of an overly glittered (jk, nothing is ever too sparkly) clutch that I received the night before we went as I got off a plane that took me from one of my favorite places: Disney World. I catch a lot of crap from people for liking Disney. I can justify it (and it’s true) that one of the main reasons I like Disney at all is because of the ideals and work ethic of Walt Disney himself, but honestly so what? Why is it so bad that a grownup (because any gender can) like a happy ending? Why have we become so underwhelmed with life that when a kid says they want to be a princess when they grow up we tend to verbally smack it out of them? I think we’re all looking at this from the wrong side.

We’ve all grown up with hardships. We didn’t get enough love, we didn’t have enough support, or we just didn’t get Susie Tinkles A Lot for a present one year. We tend to see a lot of the bad in the world and seem to want to impose that on the younger generation because…why? So they can have realistic expectations of what’s to come? Trust me, they’ll figure it out as well as we did because of others. They don’t need someone they look up to telling them it’s ridiculous to want to live in a castle. Most of the kids that I hear from whether it’s at Disney World or at a park or even on a TV show don’t say they love fairy tales because the princess went and married a prince. It’s not as heteronormal as that because kids are way more open and smarter than we think. It’s because Cinderella got to go to the ball. Or Snow White got to live with 7 really awesome dwarves. Or flipping Belle got the BEST library they’ve ever seen in their life. They have big dreams. They’re taught to dream smaller.

I’ve learned that fairy tales are ongoing. Things don’t really stop after “Happily Ever After”. HEA is a choice and a HARD one. Sometimes the amazing gesture is as small as theatre tickets or as “unromantic” or difficult as forgiveness. I got the prince a few years back. He’s messed up because unfortunately, even the best ones aren’t perfect. But something else these fairy tales teach is that when you think you’ve reached as far as you can go, sometimes you have to dig a little deeper. You can find the silver lining if you should and in my case, I needed to keep going. If I hadn’t last night wouldn’t have happened. I wouldn’t have worn my sparkliest outfit and gotten to ride in a carriage *coughgolfcartcough* that dropped us off at a red carpet with a top-hat wearing, bowing doorman, which made me feel like flippin’ Cinderella. And yes, that lesson came from one of my faves, Tiana.

Fairy tales are tales that were created to teach kids right from wrong (and also to terrify them into doing the right thing at times…just read the original Cinderella). They’re moral compasses and they teach so much more than just “Be pretty, find a prince, and life is simple as pie” (which BTW is crap because a perfect pie is NOT easy). They teach you to see the good in others, to work hard for what you want, and trust in the kindness of others when you should but move on from those who you shouldn’t.

I could probably rant for a few more hours…I mean hello, I blog for a reason, but I won’t. Instead please go out and even if for just a few moments, suspend your disbelief of fairy tales and try to remember a time when things were lighter and people were a little nicer. Believe in yourself and know that you have the capability of doing amazing things – and you don’t even have a fairy godmother, you amazing person.

Wishing you your own fairy tale (even if it’s treating yourself to a yummy snack),

Shantelle

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I'm Shantelle and that's my guy, Andrew! I love colors and he's colorblind. We write about a lot of stuff, I take photos, and then we go to Disney.